What do you think?

I have had problems with my husband in the past (his cheating and disrespect toward me). At one time he abandoned me and the kids and stopped going to work leaving me with a fairly new mortgage to deal with and all the other bills. Now he is back and we are working things out, even going to counseling. Things seemed good for awhile, we've been back together 4 months. Several things have made me rethink this situation. We are still trying to come above water financially after all this happened. We almost lost our house because of this situation, but fortunately, I received an inheritance that saved the home. The whole inheritance went on it. I bought my self a pair of sneakers with the money. Then they cut off the gas in the house due to non payment, as we are trying to catch up. Now there is no hot water. I asked him what is he going to do? It's been over a week and we still have no hot water, taking showers at the gym. I'm going to have to take care of this.